Love is without question, life’s greatest experience for it brings somebody into communion with infinite intelligence. If appropriately mixed with the other emotions it may or it usually does lead one up the ladder of creative effort & a great feeling of well being. Love is an emotion with many sides, shades & colors. But the most intense & burning of all kinds of love, is that experienced in the bonding of love & sex. Relationships not blessed with the eternal affinity of love properly balanced & proportioned with sex cannot be happy ones and seldom endures. Love alone will not bring happiness in relationships, nor will sex alone. Many a time have I found myself on the extreme end of the sweet fruits of this emotion. It has its advantages & disadvantages. The worst of it comes when it decides that it has got enough of yours & needs to find another nest…
Memories of love never pass. They linger, guide, & influence long after the source of stimulation has faded. There is nothing new in this. Everyone who has been stirred by genuine love knows that it leaves enduring traces upon the human heart. The upshot of love endures because love is spiritual in nature, – I stand to be corrected. It is a stimulant in itself. If you can go back down memory lane & shower your mind with those stunning recollections of past love, it will lessen the authority of the current exasperations, disenchantments, uncertainties & will supplies you with a source of get away from the unpleasant realities if life. It is during these temporary retreats into the amazing world of fantasy, ideas or plans whereby insights come to us that may always end up changing an entire life status.
On the contrary, if you believe yourself ill-fated because you loved & lost, perish the consideration. One who has loved truly, can never lose entirely. Love is quirky & temperamental. It comes when it pleases & leaves without warning. We should accept & enjoy it while it remains, but spend no time worrying about its departure. Worry hatred, tears will never bring it back. It’s also a verified lie that love comes once, it comes and goes sometimes without count. Each time with its own uniqueness. There are no two love experiences which affect one in just the same way. There are no two love experiences which affect one in just the same way. More often than not there is an experience which leaves an unfathomable imprint on the heart than all others. There are usually those or say one which leaves experiences which are beneficial, except to the person who becomes resentful & cynical when love makes its departure.
The initial intention of love was free of disappointment, hurt and deception. I think to some extent if people (ahem… the likes of me) understood the difference between the emotions of love & sex, one being spiritual & the other being biological as I came to learn, the frustration wouldn’t exist, hurt wouldn’t exist, heartbreak s would be rare & if so, the healing process & moving on would be quicker. Unless ignorance & jealousy & all those other bad ones slither in, no experience which touches & dwells in the human heart with a spiritual force can possibly be harmful.